My upstairs neighbor hasn't put lights on his balcony this year. He did it last year, but his wife died in January, so maybe they were for her, even though she was in the locked Alzheimer's ward at the nursing home. I worry when he doesn't do things he's done before. If he's not doing them because he's in his late 80s and it's too much trouble or he doesn't care about it, that's okay. But if he's not doing them because he's depressed, I'm worried.
I usually do grocery shopping on Mondays, but it just occurred to me that that's Christmas so I called and the store won't be open that day. I moved it to Tuesday on my list.